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Mike Barnet of Brmrtn Blk Mkt Creates Hub of Black Community
Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich

Mike Barnet of Brmrtn Blk Mkt Creates Hub of Black Community

I had the pleasure of attending an event called Brmrtn Blk Mkt (Bremerton Black Market). It took place in Downtown Bremerton’s Quincy Square and per the website was “an open-air market celebration in Quincy Square of Black-led businesses, food vendors, doubledutch performances and live entertainment!” This free market allowed me to engage with and support my cultural community and I left, purchase-laden, feeling invigorated and refilled. 

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Juneteenth: The Theft of Rest and the Radical Pursuit of Reclamation
Points of View Lynette Evans Points of View Lynette Evans

Juneteenth: The Theft of Rest and the Radical Pursuit of Reclamation

Beyond the physical labor, those two stolen years completely robbed Black people of the vital life milestones that defined actual freedom. They were kept from the immediate, desperate search to find long-lost loved ones who had been sold down river. They were blocked from legally binding their marriages and solidifying the family units that slavery had spent centuries trying to rip apart. They were denied the right to pool resources, buy land, build equity, and found the independent schools that would educate the next generation. Every single day of delayed emancipation was a day stolen from laying the foundations of generational wealth, security, and community building.

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Soft Life, Hard Lessons: The Power of ‘No’
Columns Lynette Evans Columns Lynette Evans

Soft Life, Hard Lessons: The Power of ‘No’

There is a specific kind of intoxication that comes when you re-enter the dating world with a healed heart. You’re feeling good, your body looking like tea, and your capacity for joy is wide open. But I had to learn a hard lesson recently: Just because a man has the charm to grab your attention doesn’t mean he has the integrity to hold your space.

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To Seattle, With Autistic Love
Points of View Maxwell Meier Points of View Maxwell Meier

To Seattle, With Autistic Love

Growing up in the South, stigmas can run wild, branding you. Queer? Hide that shit. Autistic? Mask it at all costs. I learned to let people perceive me like a shadow. I showed enough of myself to let people get a sense of me without letting anyone in too deep. 

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Soft Life, Hard Lessons: No More Dry Biscuits
Columns Lynette Evans Columns Lynette Evans

Soft Life, Hard Lessons: No More Dry Biscuits

I have realized that my heart, the very center of my desire, has the amazing capacity to recognize beauty in more than one mirror. I find myself in a season I never expected: navigating deep feelings while standing firmly on newly discovered ground. This wasn’t a planned destination; I didn’t set out to audition hearts or be out here all in my feels. But here we are! As a woman who has been refined by the scorching fires of two divorces, I have realized that healing doesn't make your heart smaller—it makes it more discerning.

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‘Sinners’ in the LGBTQIA+ Lens, Part 3: Agency
Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich and Parker Dean Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich and Parker Dean

‘Sinners’ in the LGBTQIA+ Lens, Part 3: Agency

Sinners continuously highlights the power and danger in refusal. This is an underrated technique that women, marginalized races, the Queer and Trans community, and anyone else that the world actively rejects have to learn if they expect to survive—when all options have been systemically stripped from you. 

When your voice is not only ignored, but silenced… There is power in saying “No.”

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Soft Life, Hard Lessons: The Ghost of 22
Columns Lynette Evans Columns Lynette Evans

Soft Life, Hard Lessons: The Ghost of 22

It wasn't until my life was threatened that I found the boldness to move. I learned that staying isn't succeeding if you are being annihilated in the process. It is always, always okay to leave a table where love is no longer being served—even if you’re the one who set the place.

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Kink Subculture Can Provide Liberation, Decolonization Through Consent + Expression
Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich Points of View Raegan Ballard-Gennrich

Kink Subculture Can Provide Liberation, Decolonization Through Consent + Expression

It’s very different from my experiences growing up moderately religious in the South. It took away the shame and self-blame. In heteronormative, vanilla sex, there are too many unspoken expectations, too many assumptions about what’s going to happen, that some people just begin following the script without any sort of communication. This, I believe, leads to situations like what 17-year-old me experienced, where I left thinking I had led someone on and realized years later that I was actually assaulted. I don’t know if he knows this though.

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